Get the most out of the law of attraction.
That which you seek is seeking you.
Because what is for you is for you.
And no matter where you hide, how fast you run, or how many times you self-sabotage, it will find a way to find you.
But maybe you could make it easier for the universe.
The problem is
The problem is that you are probably chasing a dream that doesn’t belong to you that is not meant for you.
And you, on a conscious level, believe that it does.
That’s why the subconscious — which pulls the strings — continually trips you up so that you don’t achieve what you think you want, but deep down is not for you: so that you don’t hurt yourself.
Self-sabotage is a defense mechanism.
You have access to an infinite intelligence within you that transcends you.
You are the sum of the genes of all your ancestors, and in that genetic sequence, there is information that you are not aware of and call intuition.
And that something inside you keeps you away from what it knows will make you hurt or unhappy no matter how much you think you want it.
The Solution
Listen more to your body.
Your body knows what vibrates in harmony with you and what does not.
I worked for a long time as a real estate agent, and what I noticed most about my clients was the phrase, “Meh, it doesn’t vibrate for me. Not for me.”
And it didn’t matter if the property was well located, well priced, and spacious. If the client didn’t feel it, they wouldn’t buy it.
The opposite was also the case.
I have sold apartments that I wouldn’t live in: poorly located, overpriced, with horrible neighbors, and poorly distributed inside.
Even so, their future buyers would say, “This apartment has something special. I feel good. I can see myself living here.
Strange.
Buying an apartment is an important decision. And most of us rely not only on our budget but also on our emotions.
We know that a house is not just a house; it’s a home. That’s why we visit homes to see how we feel inside them. To know if the house “Is for us or not.”
Do the same with your dreams.
The million-dollar question: How do you know if your dreams are for you?
I have wanted to be an industrial engineer since I was a kid because I believed that behind it was money, status, and happiness.
I went to college for industrial engineering and got straight A’s in several subjects.
But guess what, “I didn’t like engineering.”
I threw half my life away chasing a dream that got stuck in my head and wasn’t for me.
Yet writing has haunted me all my life, and I was the only one who didn’t realize it. But it finally caught up with me.
Although I could have been less stubborn, realized it sooner, seen the elephant in the middle of the room and made it easier for the universe.
Ask yourself another question: What is your elephant in the room?
Your white elephant is what you want to materialize, not what you think you want.
It looks the same, but it is not.
You use your intellect and reason for what you think you want.
You need to use emotion, instinct, and the heart for what you truly desire and what is in your subconscious.
The eye of your heart can see what you want and need. And it will transmit that information to you in the form of emotion or harmonic resonance, that feeling that something or someone is vibrating with you.
My mind-blowing Adam’s Rib Theory
There are parts of us hidden around the world.
Inside places.
Within people.
Inside situations.
Inside jobs.
Even inside objects
(Vehicles the universe uses to bring you closer to Adam’s ribs; what you lack to feel complete).
That’s why you feel good with some people and not with others.
Example: that stranger you meet at a party and seems to be a lifelong friend.
That’s why there are unknown places where you feel at home as soon as you arrive.
Example: that time you went to [Insert your favorite city] for the first time, and you felt at home.
That’s why some activities make you happy, no matter how childish they seem.
Example: that dream from your youth that you kept pushing away but that recurrently comes back to your mind in the form of a project that you want to undertake.
That is why there are jobs that you are so good at that they are designed for you.
Example: that job that you were mysteriously so good at and that you used to pay for your degree, and you have not been able to forget.
I call all of that “Adam’s ribs”.
They are parts of you in other places and need to come together with you so that everything finally fits together and you feel whole.
A friend took a business administration course and worked 20 years in a bank as a senior executive. The guy paid his way through school by working as a cook. And he could never get the kitchen out of him.
Ultimately, he went into depression, got divorced, and realized that the only thing that made him better was preparing weekend barbecues for friends.
He now has his restaurant and has rebuilt his love life.
He thought his dream was banking for money and status. Wrong.
His dream was that which made him feel complete.
He finally found his dream, which he had been looking for all his life (the kitchen).
Takeaway
What is it that makes you feel complete?
What kind of person makes you feel good around them?
In what city do you feel at home?
What hobby makes you feel complete? Could you professionalize it and make it your livelihood?
The honest answer to these questions is your Adam Ribs. Parts of you that are outside of you that the universe is trying to bring to you.
The law of attraction becomes more powerful when you try to attract what you truly want because it is yours; it is a part of you hidden outside you. And that part of you also feels incomplete, so it is looking for you. So that together, you form a whole.
Discover your Adam’s ribs and try to manifest them, visualizing them. The whole universe will conspire in your favor so that what belongs to you finds you.
A virtual hug
AG