10 Signs That You’re Not as F*cked Up as You Think You Are

#9- You sometimes cry.

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You are doing good, but maybe you don’t see it. So let me help you with that.

Let me share a list of signs that you are on the right path.

Let’s go


  1. You feel shame for being who you were, and that’s good news. Because it means that you no longer identify with the person you were. You have changed for the better. Stop blaming yourself.
  2. You feel anger and frustration because you, for the first time in your life, know where you want to go and with whom. And only some people can say that. There are tons of guys out there without a plan, without a purpose. You’re fighting for your dreams because your life has meaning.
  3. You spend time alone because you have understood the difference between loneliness and solitude. And you don’t feel lonely; you look for your solitude to understand yourself, to look inside yourself.
  4. You don’t have tons of friends. You don’t need them. You avoid fake friendships. That’s why you only have a few loyal friends. And that’s amazing because you surround yourself only with real people.
  5. You don’t go on many romantic dates, but it’s not because you’re a loser; it’s because, over the years and bad experiences, you’ve become selective, and you love yourself so much that you no longer go around the world begging for love.
  6. Sometimes, you do something stupid that you know you shouldn’t. But you are aware of it, and that is a big step. Now you know what’s good for you and what’s not, and even if you sometimes f**ked up by overeating or having a beer, you quickly get back on track. Because you are no longer self-deceptive whenever you screw up, you are aware of your actions.
  7. You have your limitations. And you are ok with that. You grew as a person, and you know that limitations define who we are as humans. You can change the world because your limitations show you what you have to change to improve life. Limitations favor your imagination, and your imagination can make you very wealthy.
  8. You are busy, which means you have work, goals to achieve and projects to complete. And that’s better than being unemployed.
  9. You sometimes cry because you want to better your life. And that’s amazing, mate. We live in a world of idleness and laziness. And you have the will to live; that’s why sometimes you have such a hard time. Because the desire to live a good life burns in your guts.
  10. People take advantage of you. But you don’t realize they do it because you are a GOOD PERSON. You are so good. You are a Giver, and sure you are surrounded by Takers but don’t worry, the universe will reward you. Good people end up doing well in the end.

Takeaway

You are doing better than you think, even if nobody value you.

And it doesn’t matter if they don’t appreciate what you do; when you are a good person and do things without expecting anything in return when you leave, they always end up missing you.

The day you leave, they won’t have anyone like you.

A virtual hug

AG

2 responses to “10 Signs That You’re Not as F*cked Up as You Think You Are”

  1. The day you leave they have no one like you.. lol this is the truth… And I say it all the time.. I leave you will never find another me.. good or bad lol don’t care how they take it . Because it always takes 2-3 people to replace anything I do lol. Ask my fiance that’s my ex husband who I was married to for 20 years.. he apologized and appreciates everything I do now . Big or small… He realized what he lost and knew he needed to change in order to have me back in his life.. and so far so good.. im impressed

    1. I’m so glad your relationship is going well, my friend. Thank you very much for staying in touch with me, I really appreciate it 🙂

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