Discover the seducer in you.
I worked for years as a waiter in a nightclub and discovered the critical points to becoming a magnet for people by observing the customers.
As a result of that experience, I have made a simple list of the three fundamental points (that do not cost money) that you have to take into account if you want to become more attractive in the eyes of others.
These are the sexiest behaviors that you can include in your daily life to attract your better half.
Act like the host
There is a false myth that says that tough guys and Femme Fatales are the most flirtatious at the discotheque. And it’s an entirely wrong myth.
What attracts people is a determined personality. And this is often confused with cold and distant behavior.
Suppose you want to attract all eyes; the fundamental thing is to enter the room smiling, maintaining an upright posture, and behaving as if you were at home (but without being a jerk).
How to do it?
All the most successful people I’ve met in my years working in the nightlife world did the same thing; they behaved as if the bar was theirs, not in the sense of showing off but treating everyone as guests.
Be a good host, and you will attract all eyes.
Taking care of people and ensuring they are comfortable makes you irresistible.
Smell and cleanliness are the keys.
This myth is true. I didn’t come here to spout platitudes but to tell you the hard truth.
I’m not telling you to go to the club dressed like the Great Gatsby. But go neat.
Showering doesn’t cost money, and it improves your chances of success.
During my years at that disco, I met a young engineering student who always came at the last minute, and one day I asked him why he came so late and missed the show we did at the beginning of the night.
And he told me that he did it because it increased his chances of hooking up. After all, when he came, everyone smelled of tobacco and alcohol, but he came freshly showered, smelling of cologne. And it worked for him.
That guy never wore expensive clothes; he dressed like James van der Beek in Dawson’s creek: plaid shirt over a white undershirt, jeans, and sneakers.
So you know, you have no excuses, try to smell good, look clean, and you’ll be a pleasure to approach.
Be clear about what you are looking for
The secret of good songs is that they connect with the listener. It’s not about the music; it’s about the person.
The same is true in the dating world.
It’s not about you; it’s about the people you want to attract.
Not everyone is at the same time as you; not everyone is on the same page in the book of life. Understanding this is key.
Nothing is sexier than being confident and not hiding what you are looking for.
That’s why the most successful flirts who came to the discotheque danced like crazy to the songs they liked and showed boredom when any other genre of music was played.
This attitude made them find their tribe (similar people who approached them and with whom they ended up hitting it off).
I remember a guy who was annoyed every time reggaeton was played and complained energetically and asked for Freddy Mercury to be played.
One night he joined Rocker girl to come and complain about the music; it was hilarious because they ended up getting married.
Things in common unite, but it sustains a relationship over the years.
So if you want to look more attractive, visit environments of your interest and do things you love; it could be a dog kennel where you volunteer or salsa classes; in those places, you will find people who share your passion, and you will eliminate competition in one fell swoop.
Because you will find people with similar tastes, looking for the same thing as you, inhabiting the same page of the book of life, which is irresistible.
A virtual hug
AG
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