How to Break Free From a Sh*tty Life and Difficult People at the Same Time

“One small step for you, one giant leap for your well-being.”

Photo by Stas Svechnikov on Unsplash

Some people are like intrusives recurrent thoughts.

People who dirty you with their presence. People who spoil your landscape and steal your peace of mind.

The more you focus on them, the more their influence grows into your life.

Why does that happen?

Because you identify yourself with the sh*tty life they offer to you.

Learning to change your identity to detach yourself from these pain-in-the-ass people would be best.


Your limitations are limiting your reality.

If you rattle to the same ways to face reality, you’ll never change it for the better. As Albert Einstein used to say, “Madness is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting something new to happen.”

You are not what you are; you are what you do with what you are. Read it again.

We live the life we choose to experience.

I know it’s hard to accept.

But think about it. You see reality with your own eyes, perception, value system, and mindset. Thus, the life you are experiencing it’s a projection of your inner self.


Don’t blame the game; blame the player.

If you want to change your reality (and the bunch of difficult people you deal with), you must not go deeper because going deep is eating more and more of the sh*tty cake you want to throw away.

It’s better to change the menu.

And the best way is to change from the inside instead of trying to change the outside.

It would be best if you become a new you.

How? By changing your perception.


True history

I was a lovesick fool who, for 20 years, always ended up with toxic partners.

Why?

Because I didn’t change my perception of true love.

Once I changed my definition of love, I stopped dating clones of Morticia Addams 🙂

The sooner you change, the sooner difficult people run away from your life because they will not get what they need from you.


It would be best if you had a change.

Changing your perception is complex because — even obsolete — you feel comfortable being who you are.

You love your comfort zone: your misery.

You want to be healthy and wealthy without leaving your comfort zone.

Spoiler: It will not work.

  • You can’t be fit if you don’t hit the gym.
  • You can’t get the dream job if you don’t learn new skills.
  • You can’t marry the blue prince (or princess) if you don’t take seriously your self-improvement.

In resume: if you want more from your life, you must become more.


Face the harsh truth.

You have two options here,

  1. You remain the same and deal with the consequences.
  2. You change and free yourself from your sh*tty life and bad companies.

My friend, you must take down your limitations and expand your field.

Don’t fear the unknown.


The powerful the why, the easy the how.

You only need enough reasons to move forward to change your life. And if you are reading this article, you probably have those reasons.

You are only a step away from your new you.

One small step for you, one giant leap for your well-being.

Please do it.

A virtual hug

AG

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