Lessons from my own experience.
The last time I rock bottom, a divine being burst into my life and flew me out of hell.
Cool, right?
No, dude. All that glitters is not gold.
Being in a normal relationship is hard; being with a divine being is crazy.
The same rules don’t apply as in normal relationships (in my personal experience).
And people don’t usually handle the situation well.
Here are three things you will have to sacrifice if you want to date your guardian angel 🙂
The explanations.
The first thing that struck me was that this person did not give or ask for explanations. She started from the basis of trust. And that was super weird to me.
I was so used to my exes asking me for explanations when I was late that I understood she didn’t ask for them because of a lack of interest in the relationship.
Wrong!
A divine being is with you because of what he sees inside you.
And they know that if you lie to them, you lie to yourself. And that the lie sooner or later becomes visible, so they do not need to interrogate you like a cop every time you come home late.
They know how you are, and if they are with you, they accept you as such.
Expectations
When you start a serious relationship, you want the other person to guarantee that they will at least fight to make the relationship last as long as possible.
With a divine being, it doesn’t work that way.
I didn’t understand the meaning of living in the now until I dated one.
Divine beings can spend years with you, but there is no such thing as seniority in a relationship with them.
A divine being chooses you every day; don’t take it for granted because they live in the now, and that’s a hard lesson I had to learn.
Unnecessary arguments
The divine being I dated started to feel jealous because of my popularity on social media and what that entails (people trying to seduce you, etc.).
And instead of getting mad at me, she got angry at herself because she wasn’t used to feeling jealous.
Instead of arguing with me, she put those toxic feelings in quarantine and continued to treat me well despite the excessive displays of affection from a few admirers.
Likewise, she never got into it if I got jealous or got into a silly argument.
She never let herself be dragged down by my dramas.
She didn’t want her life to be a soap opera.
She understood that two people who are together can be together without arguing.
So, I had to sacrifice the silly arguments. And start talking about things calmly.
Last words
I haven’t been with that person for a long time. I’m single now. Our time together is over. And she moved on. There was no drama in the breakup (something I had never experienced before).
When a divine being leaves your side, they try not to make you suffer, which makes up for all the sacrifices you make in the relationship. Because, in the end, you are with a person who genuinely wants your well-being and not to possess you.
A virtual hug
AG
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