The Most Disturbing Life Lesson You Learn When Your Life Doesn’t Match the Potential You Feel Inside of You

Save time learning from my mistakes.

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Sometimes, you feel so bad but can’t put words to it.

All seems to be going well: you have the job, the house, the bros, stability, and a social environment that appreciates you, but all feels a little meh!

Do you know why that lack of interest and enthusiasm?

It is because you are repressing your inner truth. Read it again and again until it sinks in your heart.

You’re abandoning the mission that brought you into this world.

You are not doing your part. And the universe knows that. Because the universe/God knows everything. Stop cheating.

You can’t escape from your destiny or your purpose.

Sure, you have free will. But when you are not doing what you suppose to be doing with your time, life sucks.

You play the life game for so long to know that, even if you don’t want to admit it.

The dreams you do not try to fulfill break into a thousand glass pieces and puncture your soul.

That’s why you are not able to enjoy your comfort zone.

There is a fire inside you that still burns. And if you don’t let that fire free, you will burn out from inside.

It’s hard to feel pain even when things supposedly are going well.

Maybe people say, “Came on, bro. Your life is not that bad”.

That’s the problem: not that bad implies “bad.”

I know what I am talking about. I was that guy, the Meh!-Guy

— How is it going on? — Meh!

— How is your job? — Meh!

— How do you feel? — Meh!

Do you a favor, cut that bullsh*t, my friend.

Cut with the loop.

This is the most disturbing thing that living under my potential taught me after a couple of decades.

When you live a life you don not suppouse to be living, you live in a f*cking damn loop that only gets worst and bigger with time.

It is a loop where the only thing that changes is the play’s characters, but the new people who came into your life are still playing the same role repeatedly until you break the loop.

Let me share a personal example.

The character of the repressive mother of my loop became, with the years, the repressive girlfriend.

The bullies in my loop were the kids at school, and over time, their role in the loop was taken over by co-workers or abusive bosses.

How to escape the loop.

You must do different things to live a different life. You have to interact differently with the gatekeepers of your loop.

And you usually refuse to do that.

I refused to spend time with my mom and with my brother.

I refused to face the bullies of my life, too. (And that’s why they seemed to reproduce like fungi by spores).

But everything changes when you dare to face your demons with love (not with anger or hate).

You must understand that the lessons the universe wants to teach you will be repeated, embodied in different people, throughout your life until you learn them.

And what does this have to do with the Meh!-feeling

Well, everything.

Because if you start facing the things that you know you have to face, your life will improve. Because you will need all of your f*cking potential to survive those bullies and gatekeepers of your loop. Believe me 🙂

My grandfather always told me, “You would never discover the magic of your nose if there were no flowers to smell.”

The moral is you need those gatekeepers to discover your inner strength.

And the day you face those gatekeepers, you will feel the match between you, your inner power, and the universe.

And let me tell you something: It’s scary as f*ck.

But you start living in a different mode that stops feeling like Meh! and starts feeling like Hell Yess!

That is the life I wish you to have, a Hell Yess life.

A virtual hug.

AG

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