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How to Know if Someone Truly Loves You
As children, we watched Disney movies. As adults, we enjoy romantic movies where everything turns out well. And we all know that in life, it’s not like that. Yet, we continue to lose our heads over romantic archetypes that have nothing to do with reality. We aspire to have Hollywood-type relationships, and they don’t exist.…
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How to Use Gratitude to Change Your Life
I used to be the typical person who complained about everything. Life kept hitting me at every opportunity. Nothing I undertook worked out for me. I felt like a failure. As the song says, “There are three things in life: health, money, and love.” Well, I had none of the three. And that created frustration…
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5 Steps To Becoming Your Best Version
1. Stop focusing on what you think you need And start focusing on what you really want. It sounds the same, but it’s not. You live on the hamster wheel when you focus on what you need. When you focus on what you really want, the hamster escapes from the cage and runs free in…
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The 7 Wonders of the Emotional World
1. Empathic people “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” —Plato. Life is uncertain, but you can be sure of one thing: we all have problems. I’ve never met a single person without problems. The word “problem” is a synonym for “Live.” You must surround yourself with empathic people and be…
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“The song ends, but the melody remains.”
We all want to slam the door occasionally, shout, “This is it!” and tell someone to go fuck themselves, right? The problem is, as Nora Ephron used to say, “When the song ends, the melody remains.” In other words, the relationship is over, but the story continues; it stays inside, spinning like laundry in a…
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Sometimes the Best Anti-stress Pill is Not a Pill. Sometimes It’s a Hug.
Photo by Dim Hou Or spending time with friends, walking, playing sports, or enjoying the sunset while walking barefoot on the grass. Sometimes the best anti-stress pill is not a pill but a good book, listening to music, looking at the infinite through the window while it rains, or even taking a good nap (alone…
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Life is short.
Life is short. What is today is over tomorrow. You take something for granted—a job, a relationship, an opportunity—and when you least expect it, you get fired, dumped, or miss your train. So fight for what you want because everything has a time and a place.
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Puzzle
Sometimes life is like a puzzle: you have all the pieces, but they are separated. Your job is to put them together. Put the puzzle together. And enjoy the process. Because in the end, when you put the last piece together, it will all make sense. Trust!
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Persist
You can not always win. but you can always try one more time. That is the secret to success. Persist and you will win.