Read this if you feel you are not appreciated enough.
If you are not valued, it is not because something is wrong with you. There isn’t. Believe me.
If you are not valued, it is not because you don’t deserve to be loved. We all deserve dignity and love.
If they don’t value you, it’s because they have you around and take you for granted.
The reason for their indifference
Sometimes the indifference of others is a reminder of how much we are worth and how much we have forgotten it. Sometimes indifference is a present that makes us react.
If they don’t value you, it’s not because you are not an amazing human being. It is because they got used to your light.
If they don’t value you, it’s not because you lost the magic. It is because they got used to your presence.
If they don’t value you, it’s not because you have failed. It’s because they are failing you and want to turn the tables and make you feel responsible.
What you can do about it
Opportunities come when they come and go when they go. And you are a great opportunity, don’t stand next to someone who doesn’t see it or value it.
You are worth more than that.
You are better than that.
If they don’t value you, you have to assert yourself.
If they don’t value you, you have to find other people who know how to enjoy your company. People who do value you.
If they don’t value you, you have to choose yourself. And find your place.
If you do, what will happen
If you do, if you find your place, your joy will return.
Because we all like to feel appreciated.
Because we all like to contribute and to be counted on.
Because we are not just another number, we are people, and we need to be recognized for our work, company, and commitment.
Because we have a lot to offer to the right people, to stay begging for attention from the wrong ones.
Find a place that does you good
If you do, if you find your place, your self-esteem will grow.
I know that sometimes it is problematic; that those who make you gaslight live in your house; maybe it’s your partner or a family member. And everything is so difficult that you can’t take such a radical step as leaving.
But you can find somewhere to go for a couple of hours daily.
A place where you feel good.
A place where you can find yourself again.
A place where you can be you.
I need you to love yourself a little more and set aside a few hours of your time to find that place that feels good.
Most people never take that step; instead, they stay mourning and begging for love from those who only know how to offer indifference.
But you are different. You need you. And that’s why today you’re going to choose you. And you are going to remedy this situation. So today, you are going to be a little happier. A little more you. And tomorrow, too. And the day after, too.
And day by day, you will smile again.
And then, when you shine with your own light, you will see how all those who ignored you will come running for your energy.
But you will protect that light because you need it. After all, it is yours because you learned your lesson.
A virtual hug
AG
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