Tag: Self improvement
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Three Harsh Life Lessons Every 30-Something Should Learn Sooner Than Later
Lessons from a 40-something guy (learn from my mistakes). I’ve swallowed so much crap from my 30s to my 40s that I’d give anything to go back to talk to my old self and give him some tips. Since I can’t, I’ll take revenge by sharing those tips with all the people having a hard…
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I Lived in a State of Quiet Desperation Until I Began to Hear Messages From the Universe
Learn to listen to what the universe wants to tell you. When I was 25, I asked my girlfriend if she would still love me if I went bankrupt, and she replied, “Of course, honey. And I would miss you so much.” Years later, I went bankrupt, and she made good on her subtle threat.Since then,…
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WHEN LIFE BURIES YOU
Sometimes, life buries us in a hole so deep that we can’t see the sunthat we can’t see the sunAnd on top of that, it sends us a thousand storms to flood it.But don’t forget that we are seedsAnd seeds, when they are buried and wateredcan only do one thing Grow! But… When life buries…
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WHEN LIFE HITS YOU HARD
When life hits you hard, there are only two ways. The way of the enslave and the way of the warrior. If you choose the path of the enslave, you will be a prisoner of fear and your circumstances. If you choose the path of the warrior, you will take stock of your weapons (which…
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Quick Guide to Getting Back on Track From Scratch
Real-life examples for real people. Yesterday a friend came to see me to vent to me. Long story short, They say three things in life: health, money, and love. Well, she is missing all three. The life she dreams of living vs. the life she has. So the life she wants to lead is very different from the life…
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4 Things I Tell Myself When I Feel F*ck as Hell
#3. “No bird flies high when there is calm.”- Wilbur Wright. 1. Human beings are not made for defeat. A human being can be destroyed but not defeated. — Ernest Hemingway The world is like a rigged video game in which it is difficult to win, and you usually lose. And sometimes, that feeling of constant loss becomes…
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The Secret of Happiness May Lay in Understanding This Difference
Learn this before it’s too late. The famous author Paul Auster wrote a book after his father’s sudden death, The Invention of Solitude. In the book, he says, “One day there is life. Everything is as it is. Then you spend daily minding your business and dreaming of the life ahead. And then, all of a…
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Brainwash Yourself to Change Your Reality
If you don’t brainwash yourself, someone else will do it. In this society, it is impossible to escape from retail segmentation. Companies buy your data packets to know what you do, where you go, and your tastes; they offer you their products and services. You may think advertisement doesn’t work. Wrong! It does work. In the 20th…
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4 Disturbing Lessons I Learned After More Than 15 Years of Being a Multi-substance Addict.
#3. You can turn any healthy activity into an addiction. Some years ago, a regular day in my life was composed of, I have lived this live style from seventeen to thirty-something. Thank God, today I’m clean. But those years at the edge taught me some unsettling lessons I want to share with you. 1.…
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4 Things That Made My Life Better When I Got Tired of Them
Learn from my mistakes. Yesterday I was reading a book in the supermarket queue. Suddenly, a bunch of people wake up from their zombie mode and start making a fuss and complaining about waiting. It was like the image of a person reading peacefully makes people angry for not being bitter like the other people…