Tag: Self improvement
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How Detachment Can Make You More Happy, Wealthy, and Admire
Do yourself a favor: stop getting attached to these three things. Clinging to things has its advantages. But like coins, it has two sides. The b-side of attachment is jealousy, obsession, pain, guilt, longing, depression, living death, and all those things that make you call your ex at 3 AM and hang up as if doing…
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Things Are Dark Until You Turn the Light on
Follow the light. It is your way out. At some point in our lives, we dug a hole and hid our heads like ostriches do when they are afraid. Little by little, we made that hole more profound to escape from shame, expectations, and the World. And the hole ended up swallowing us. Then time passed…
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Three Thoughts to Keep in Mind to Avoid Burnout
#1-Working is essential, but… In the morning, when I have my coffee in front of the window, I look at the birds, who seem to laugh at me. They look at me like the joggers who pass in front of the gym gallery while I run on the treadmill and become part of the shop…
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Three Life Lessons We Can All Learn From Walt Disney
#3 — Go to the light. “Let’s not forget that it all started with a mouse,” Walt Disney used to say. He did it not to lose perspective and work hard. But in 1931 — although already successful — he did not know that he would create a billionaire empire that would last until today. In that same year (1931), Gilbert Seldes…
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Four Subtle Signs That You Are a Toxic Person Without Knowing It
Learn from my old toxic behaviors and not be like I was 🙂 The most toxic person I have ever met in my life was me. So toxic I was that if I could travel back in time, I would visit each of my exes and yell, “Danger! Danger! Run away, don’t believe their lies”. I’m…
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7 Subtle Signs That Secretly Mean You’re About to Put Your Life Together
#4- You no longer wait for anyone (only for yourself). Do you want to know if your life is about to change for the better? When you start to get your life in order, the changes are so subtle that few people notice them, including yourself. Here are seven subtle signs I detected when my…
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Four Things I’ve Unsubscribed Myself From
— And You Probably Should. Do you know the happy birthday old trick? You get a birthday greeting by WhatsApp from someone who doesn’t know when your birthday really is. Then you reply something like, “My birthday was a couple of months ago,” and then that person sends you any version of this message “Sorry, handsome.…
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Three Radical Ways to Move Forward When Things Get Tough and Life Suks
Because life is not all sunsets and margaritas on the beach. Have you realized that we do weird things when we get hurt? We change our hairstyle to a fancy one. We go to the gym to get revenge body. We tattoo our skin to feel that we are the phoenix that rose from the ashes.…
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10 Signs That You’re Not as F*cked Up as You Think You Are
#9- You sometimes cry. You are doing good, but maybe you don’t see it. So let me help you with that. Let me share a list of signs that you are on the right path. Let’s go Takeaway You are doing better than you think, even if nobody value you. And it doesn’t matter if…
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Four Self-Sabotaging Behaviors That Are Hurting Your Life (and You Don’t Even Notice It)
#1-Wanting to take on more than you can. People don’t understand what self-sabotage is. They think it is a self-destructive mechanism. The reality is that we self-sabotage to stay in our comfort zone so that nothing changes and we feel safe. It is a mental process that aims to keep us safe, away from uncertainty. The…