Tag: Self improvement
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The Uncomfortable Change You Need to Make to Escape Mediocrity
It’s time to do things right. The number one problem why you don’t have the life you deserve is because you don’t understand the game. Yes, life is a game, the most complex of all. Don’t listen to those populist phrases like “life is simpler than you think. You have to let yourself go.” Because if…
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The Power of Being Your Own Hero
If I could time-travel to 1990, I would say to my former self, “Kid, no one is going to help you except you.” But I’d need a car as fancy as a DeLorean and a Mad scientist to become Marty McFly. And by the moment, Elon Musk is busy. He won’t return my calls, and…
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Three Harsh Truths You Don’t Want to Hear About Self-improvement but Must
3 — Time is running out. Whenever I hear “Self-help,” I am assaulted by images of cold showers, Alarm clocks ringing at 5:00 a.m., Zen masters looking to the wall, green smoothies, and sweaty guys yelling at me, “One more rep, bro!” I have nothing against The Wim Hof method (cold showers after deep breaths), the 5 a.m.…
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Four Powerful Questions to Ask Yourself Again and Again
If we measured wealth by the number of good deeds, how rich would you be? How do you treat the waiter when you go to the restaurant?How do you treat your partner when you disagree on something?How do you treat your kids after a crappy day at the cubicle? And most of all, how do…
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Five Things Truly Confident People Do
Why do we find confident people so engaging? Because they have faith in themselves, and that makes all the difference. But they have other characteristics that make them extraordinary. Here are five that you can steal and apply in your life They allow themselves to fail. Confident = Certain; and Certain = Experience. If you don’t…
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80/20 Rule To Improve Your Life Quickly.
Ask yourself these questions. Who are the 20% of people you feel better with 80% of the time? Start visiting them more. What activities belong to the 20% of things that bring you the most value, purpose, and happiness 80% of the time? Do them more. Or, if you prefer Who are the 20% of…
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How to Start Living a Premium Life
Spoiler: by taking massive action. You can’t do the things a few do by doing what every regular joe does. And you may be asking yourself, “What if I don’t have the motivation to change (even though I want to change)? Don’t worry. I’m your man. Read on. You don’t need motivation to change. You only…
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The Ultimate Not-To-Do-List to Do More
You have to stop doing ten things if you want to gain time and mental energy. What you do everyday matters, but what you do not do matters even more. Here’s a quick list of little things to stop doing to save yourself time and aggravation. It works for me, and I hope it works…
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10 Very Short “Reminders” That Will Save You a Lot of Time and Troubles in Your Social Interactions.
1. How you feel determines how you act. That’s true for you and the rest of the people you surround. I call this “the cycle of shit,” and you need to know what it means to avoid it. The cycle of shit starts with your feelings. If you feel bad, you think wrong; if you…
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Four Dangerous Myths About Happiness
Happiness is a right. The idea that happiness is a timeless right is dangerous because we take it for granted when we should protect it. Happiness is a concept that evolves with time and historical achievement. Historian Darrin McMahon recounts the evolution of happiness in his book Happiness: a History. To summarize, Since then, the concept…