Tag: Relationships
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7 Reasons Why Spiritual People Struggle More to Find Love
Sometimes being awake and being a good person is not enough to attract love. Unfortunately, loving yourself is not enough to attract your soul mate. Unfortunately, healing your wounds and overcoming your traumas is not enough to find you chosen one. Unfortunately, having survived your night of the soul, don’t send a light signal to your…
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Four Ways to Build Strong Relationships and Positively Influence People
#2 — Practice Hara Hachi Bu. The day I die, I want my tombstone to read, “He did what he could.” Just that. And that’s enough. Because that means that I did not waste any opportunity and was always willing to live with intensity, away from laziness and negativity. And for that, it is necessary to be a…
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Three Tricks to Deal With Difficult People
#2. Learn the f*cking lesson. Jerks are everywhere those days. And it’s not that easy. It’s not easy to deal with people who take pleasure in others people’s pain. It’s not easy to stop caring what other people think, even less if they are your loved ones. It’s not easy to get away from bullies because…
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They Don’t Value You, but When They Lose You, They Will Miss You
Read this if you feel you are not appreciated enough. If you are not valued, it is not because something is wrong with you. There isn’t. Believe me. If you are not valued, it is not because you don’t deserve to be loved. We all deserve dignity and love. If they don’t value you, it’s…
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The Seven Deadly Sins of Friendship
Sin 7: Shame. Sometimes you spend too much time and effort trying to fix something that was too broken to be fixed. You know what I’m talking about: relationships. But when is the moment to quit and let it go? Well, I’m not the wiser man on the earth, but, mate, I’m in my forties, and…
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Friendship is Dead
Tedium is ruining everything. Toxic friendships are everywhere this days. We have lost the north. We only direct our lives in pursuit of the next dopamine rush. Tedium is ruining everything because we can no longer cope with it. We want everything easy and fast. Friendship has become another commodity, like fast food or fast…
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Four Things Good Persons Never Do
The more I know people, the more I love my dog. People suck. You put on the tv and see people arguing. You check your smartphone, and the same thing happens on Twitter. You open the newspaper, and reading the news is worst than watching a horror movie. “Adolescent victims of chemical submission.” “A guy walks…
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4 Signs Someone Secretly Hates You
Four subtle things people do when they dislike you. How do you know if someone hates you? It is not easy, and many people know how to disguise their intentions very well. False friends want to see you fall and make sure they are as close as possible to a) make it happen, B) see it…
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10 Very Short “Reminders” That Will Save You a Lot of Time and Troubles in Your Social Interactions.
1. How you feel determines how you act. That’s true for you and the rest of the people you surround. I call this “the cycle of shit,” and you need to know what it means to avoid it. The cycle of shit starts with your feelings. If you feel bad, you think wrong; if you…
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4 Subtle Signs That You’re With The Wrong Person
1. Excessive Criticism Criticism and negative comments lower your energy and cause the person giving it to monopolize your attention. So the next time you receive supposedly constructive criticism about something good you’ve accomplished, ask yourself two things. If you notice that the person who criticizes you does it every time and tells you that…